Most schools go through a strategic planning process where they develop a mission statement and perhaps a vision statement or set of core values to go along with it. My school is not unique in that process, but what I do find unique is the third and final bullet point for a very short mission statement.
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Initially, this thought came from a young high school student who served on the committee for the strategic planning process. Everybody was talking about a passion for learning, academic excellence, acting with integrity and then this young man stood up and said, “what about the courage to live MY dream – not your dream… not my parents’ dream for me…. MY dream”. In our fast-paced, enormous, growing and driven city that we live in, this idea is not as easy as it seems for our next generation of leaders.
The statement made the entire room pause and what ensued was a unification of thought and feeling around support for helping the next generation by nurturing their courage within to live their own dreams.
Question: How do we as a school community provide opportunities like this for our students and children?
Answer: Teachers and parents must model the courage to live their own dreams as well.
Today we had a visitor to our school that personified the integrity, compassion and courage we all seek within ourselves and hope to teach our students. John Jacobson is an educator, a musician, an artist and has made a name for himself over the years in education and communities through his work with America Sings, a community service based organization that rallies communities through voice and dance. Most recently John has achieved notoriety through his Double Dream Hands YouTube phenomenon and has even appeared on the Ellen show, teaching her staff the Double Dream Hands dance as a birthday present.
John had the teachers up dancing and singing throughout his time with us, but it’s his words that went along with the actions that stick with me because it’s the message I want my students and my own children to know and remember, especially in this fast-paced, high octane city and school we live in at this time.
1. ”Find something meaningful to with YOUR life… that is the meaning of life.”
We all don’t have to go make the next great invention. Each one of us and our students has a place and purpose that unique to them. Finding that passion is the true key to their happiness.
2. ”Find something to do, something to love, and something to hope for…”
Don’t just find something to do because really anybody can tell you what to do with your life. Only YOU can identify what you love and what you hope for.
3. ”It’s a lot about you, but it’s not ALL about you.”
In our current environment, children are growing up fairly privileged as they have access to an amazing education, travel the world to visit amazing places… but what does that all mean? What’s point if our students don’t realize HOW they fit into the bigger picture. If they can’t figure out how to give back and fit into the bigger picture, see number two above.
John’s advice clearly fits into how we all want to educate our students. We all say this, but how do we model this as adults for our students so that they actually believe us? From our time with John today, I took the following three-word phrases away to help us adults lead the way to happiness, success and balance for everybody in our lives:
God is Love.
In any situation, you can face it with Love or hate. Always choose Love.
I love you.
The best words you can say to anybody
Fate is kind.
Good things will happen to you too if you always lead with love in your heart
Don’t get tired.
Even if you are, people don’t need to heart it. What if that one day you were tired, was the one day that you were meant to make a difference in somebody’s life? And while you are at it… walk faster. (Have you ever seen a depressed person walk fast?)
You are valuable.
Every unique person has a piece of the larger puzzle. We don’t need another Madonna or Steve Jobs, we need you.
I am enough.
Your unique role, led with love in your heart, is enough. Make a difference by doing something meaningful to YOU and say out loud, “I am enough”.
And just think, I remember all of this because of song and dance…












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